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The Truthful Therapist: Therapy without Indoctrination Part One

On this episode I welcome Pamela Garfield-Jaeger, LCSW, to the conversation. Pamela is a licensed clinical social worker  (LCSW) with over 20 years of experience. She has worked in a variety of settings including NY community-based agencies, residential programs for foster youth, schools and mental health clinics in California.  She has been a clinical supervisor for up-and-coming therapists for 10 years.  In 2017, she had to leave her profession due to a severe disability and when she returned, so much in the mental health profession had changed, particularly when it comes to treatment of gender dysphoric patients.  In the teen clinic she was at in San Mateo County, California in 2021, half the girls identified as trans. Since she had been in the field with vulnerable youth for over 20 years, this was a drastic change.  

Pamela has spoken to many therapists who agree that instant affirmation of young people with complex mental health conditions is inappropriate, however, they’re being heavily silenced. Because Pam continues to cope with chronic pain and receives disability, she has been emboldened to speak out on these issues and build her own program.

Pamela took her 20 years of experience and built a comprehensive online parents’ guide to mental health with the tag line “therapy not indoctrination”. Since so many families need mental health support, Pamela’s vision is to provide information for parents so they are empowered to know what to expect, the questions to ask the therapist, understand what skilled therapy looks like, know how much they should be involved (answer: a lot!) and information on numerous current mental health topics.

Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/k6VveaPgHmM

You can find Pamela on Instagram at @the.truthfultherapist, on twitter @redpilledlcsw, https://pamthetruthfultherapist.substack.com/ on substack and her website is www.thetruthfultherapist.org.

Pamela stars in the documentary Dysconnected www.dysconnectedmovie.com

To follow @the.truthfultherapist, go here: https://www.instagram.com/the.truthfultherapist/

To download her Parent’s Guide to Mental Health, watch  Dysconnected: The Real Story Behind the Transgender explosion trailer, and connect with Pamela, go to her website here: https://www.thetruthfultherapist.org/

To see the movie “Cut–Daughters of the West” by Simon Esler where Pamela was featured, go here: https://www.daughtersofthewestfilm.com/

If you would like to learn more about the impact of “gender affirming care” on teen girls, I highly recommend you read Abigail Shirer’s book Irreversible Damage with an open mind.


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About the Author: Jennifer

Jennifer Strickland is a wife, mom, TEDx speaker, and former professional model. She is the author of Girl Perfect, More Beautiful Than You Know, and Beautiful Lies, among other books and Bible studies that teach women their worth in God’s eyes. Since leaving the modeling industry, she founded URMore.org, a non-profit ministry that provides resources to hurting women and girls. Her favorite moments are found working on the family ranch with her husband, who she calls “the Cowboy”; in her kitchen, concocting a new version of her famous spaghetti; or spending time with their three precious children.


At the age of 18, I was recovering from an eating disorder, cutting, and suicide when I read Jennifer Strickland’s book Girl Perfect and it changed my life. At the age of 33, as I travel the world reaching youth for the gospel, this is the only book I recommend to girls who are struggling. The Lord has truly anointed Jennifer’s words through her story, not only to address the struggles of today’s generation of girls, but also to walk them through the healing necessary for victory.

Christina Boudreau

Jennifer is a captivating speaker. She keeps the listener hanging in wonder of what’s coming next! Her presentation is not only absorbing, it reveals the truth of God’s power to heal a wounded spirit.

Barbara Brown

Barbara Brown, Former Stonecroft Ministries Regional Representative, San Diego, CA

“The ‘P’ word [perfection] may be the heaviest burden women bear. All the misguided things we do to attain it can keep us away from what we need most – the unconditional love of God the Father. The Girl Perfect Study Guide gives you a map to the wholeness you were created for.”

Nancy Ortberg

Nancy Ortberg, author and former teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church

“The Girl Perfect Study Guide shatters the lies girls and women believe and points to the ultimate truth, which really does set us free. I am confident that this study will help thousands discover a beauty, purpose, and worth that truly lasts. Thank you Jen for exposing the ‘perfect life’ and inviting girls to experience God’s ‘perfect love.'”

Allie Marie Smith

Allie Marie Smith, Founder of Wonderfully Made

One of the best testaments to what Jennifer is doing for the young girls and women of today is a comment from my eleven-year-old granddaughter: “Grammy, I want to read this book and hear her again. She’s good and I learned a lot.” This is exactly what I experienced from a grown-up perspective when I was introduced to Jennifer Strickland’s amazing story. Read it and see if you don’t get the real story from an icon model and a powerful speaker of truth.”

Thelma Wells

Thelma Wells, D.D. (Hon), President of Woman of God Ministries
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